Several months ago, I was asked to present the monthly teaching at All Saints’s Adult Family Catechism class. The curriculum is planned and scheduled. I was assigned the topics of Creation, Adam and Eve, the Image of God and the Plan of Salvation. These are not simple topics, but I had access to a PowerPoint presentation, notes and videos that would help, and I used them all.
Attendance at these classes (held monthly) is mandatory for the families participating in the Catechism classes. Most of the teaching is done at home, but the parishioners are asked to attend these classes to assist and hold them accountable. While preparing for this, I was reminded of the times when my attendance was mandatory at such events and how much I resented it. This was going to be a tough audience because most of them would never choose to be there. I certainly didn’t, so I understood the attitude. So, how did I go from being a forced participant to being a volunteer teacher? I just kept showing up. Somehow, a seed that was planted years ago began to develop.
I was responsible for presenting the required theological concepts, but I wanted the parents to know they were doing a good job. They were there! They showed up! And that’s all that God asks of us. Life and parenting are tough, even under the best circumstances. Too often, parents get caught up in comparison and guilt, which only worsens matters. Doing the best we can under any circumstances is the most we can ask of ourselves and each other.
So, if you find yourself in this season of life, I have some advice for you. Hang in there. God has entrusted these special souls to you for a reason. You’re not asked to do it alone. Seek the help you need from family, friends, church, and, most of all, the Holy Spirit. Just keep showing up and it will all fall into place.