Author: Kelli Rocha

  • 10th National Eucharistic Congress

    10th National Eucharistic Congress

    Leroy and I were privileged to attend the 10th National Eucharistic Congress in Indianapolis, Indiana. The last time the National Congress was held was in 1941. In attendance at the 41st International Eucharistic Congress (held in the US) in 1976 were St. Teresa of Calcutta, Pope Saint John Paul II, Venerable Fulton Sheet and Dorothy Day. This year’s event’s purpose was to worship Jesus in the true presence in the Eucharist as one church. Before this year’s event, attendance was estimated at 40,000, but it was closer to 60,000.

    We flew in a day early. We walked on our first morning there and found the Church of St. John the Evangelist. We knew this was the site of the perpetual adoration (which had not yet begun), but we didn’t realize we had arrived just in time for the opening Mass. Volunteers, pilgrims, priests, religious and lay people filled the church. I spotted Fr. Josh Johnson (Ask Fr. Josh) walking to the sacristy to prepare for Mass. He was the only Catholic celebrity in attendance that I recognized, and it worked out that he was the one distributing communion for our line.

    We met our travel companions at registration and checked into an Airbnb for the duration of the congress. Each morning, we were up early for daily Mass and the beginning of the sessions. Each day, we ended with more speakers and Adoration. It is impossible to describe everything we experienced, but I can tell you some of my favorites.

    I love seeing the “Nunny Bunnies” walking in groups with their different habits. There were many young nuns, and they radiated joy. It was contagious.

    Each session of Adoration was just a little different. In the first one, Bishop Cozzens spoke directly to Jesus in a simple conversation. (I’d never seen a priest do that before.) The second was a beautiful procession with the biggest monstrance I have ever seen.

    The music was extraordinary. We listened to everything from Gregorian Chant to Christian Rock. The lyrics were shown on the screen so everyone could sing along. I love good music of all styles.

    Each speaker was inspiring and delivered a thought-provoking message. Even the emcees were uplifting and entertaining. They kept a tight schedule, and there was never a gap in the presentations. It was exceptionally well organized. This event collected some of the most well-known Catholics in media. Some I had heard of, and many were new to me.

    The processions (for Mass and the outside Eucharistic procession on Saturday) were awe-inspiring. The sheer number of seminarians, priests, bishops and cardinals lined up was staggering. The procession for the closing Mass took thirty minutes and included over 1,000 priests.

    Of course, some presentations struck me more than others. Here is my list (all of them are available to view by clicking the names to be redirected to YouTube).

    Msgr. James Shea — My favorite of the conference

    Sr. Olga of the Sacred Heart

    Fr. Mike Schmitz

    Sr. Josephine Garrett

    Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers

    Gloria Purvis

    Jonathan Roumie

    Bishop Robert Barron

    Chris Stefanick

    The schedule of this event was grueling, but it was worth every minute. Being around 40,000+ people takes a toll on an introvert like me, but witnessing the pilgrims was inspiring. We came home exhausted and still unpacking all that occurred. Considering the saints who came out of the last one, I know we were in the presence of true greatness and future saints.

    We won’t have to wait for the next National Eucharistic Congress. The next one is scheduled for 2033.

  • July Commonplace |  Book Report

    July Commonplace | Book Report

    MOVIE: The Longest Day (1962)

    I haven’t recorded completing a book recently because I am making my way through a huge one. (30+ hours on Audible.) But I watched a couple of movies recommended to me during conversations about our recent European trip. This classic movie was also mentioned in the book I’m working on, so I knew I had to see it. 

    I was shocked by the number of well-known actors it contained. Considering how soon it was filmed after the end of the war, this must have been a raw depiction of what was in recent memory for so many. The story of D-Day will never get old or tiresome, and I also don’t think it will ever be entirely told. There were too many individual experiences. I am grateful that some of it was documented for me and future generations.

    MOVIE: A Bridge Too Far (1977)

    I have recently become acquainted with a woman who was born in Holland and whose father was in the Dutch Resistance and a POW of the Nazis during World War II. (So you know we immediately became best friends.) She recommended this movie to me as it was the story of a battle in which her father was involved. I didn’t know the story, but I enjoyed learning from the film. (Again, it was filled with many well-known actors at young ages, including one of my favorites, Sean Connery.)

    COMMONPLACE

    “In every challenge or even tragedy, there is an opportunity. And if you train yourself to look for the opportunity, you will be able to take control of the situation and even turn it into a positive or if it can’t be turned into something good, at least something good could come out of it.” – Rabbi Menachem Mendel Schneerson

    “The first minute of action is worth more than a year of perfect planning.” — James Clear

    “When one worldview dominates your thinking, you’ll try to explain every problem you face through that worldview. Read widely and realize there are many answers.” — James Clear

    “If there is no wind, row.” A Latin Adage

    “Creativity is the focused combination of unlikely things. Your mind locks onto a certain element and then searches widely for something unexpected that fits with it. What can scuba diving teach you about agriculture? What can trees teach you about public speaking? There is always some connective tissue between disciplines. If you wish to be more creative, look for the connections between two previously unconnected things.” — James Clear

    “The bad workouts are the most important ones. It’s easy to train when you feel good, but it’s crucial to show up when you don’t feel like it—even if you do less than you hope. Going to the gym for 15 minutes might not improve your performance, but it reaffirms your identity. It’s not always about what happens during the workout. It’s about becoming the type of person who doesn’t miss workouts.” — James Clear

    “There’s really no such action as dying. It is a misnomer. We use it to make reference to a process and a time period, but there is really no such thing. We are either alive or dead. The space in between is called living.” — The Final Act of Living a book by Barbara Karnes

    Pray before you respond. Pray before you decide. Pray before you offer advice. Pray before you cook. Pray before you lovingly correct. Pray before you do anything at all! When you pray before, your response will usually not be the same as it was going to be before you prayed. Let God speak before you speak. Let Him direct your steps.

  • Best Day Ever

    Best Day Ever

    I’ve written previously about how great it is to be a grandparent. I am making every effort to soak it all in and stay focused and present whenever we are around them. The older they get, the busier they have become. They have parties, field trips, practice, lessons, playdates, and other activities that take up their time. I know their schedules are only going to get busier.

    I’ve learned from these kids that each event, task, or project has the potential to make it the “best day ever.” I’m sure their criteria for the best day ever will change as they age, but right now, it doesn’t take much to make it a great day.

    Recently, Charlotte and Jameson had a whole series of consecutive best days ever. With Jameson out of school for summer break and Charlotte home full-time after her daycare closed, they are always looking for new things to do. One day, they pulled out the Easy Bake Oven Charlotte received for Christmas. They donned their aprons and got to work, baking a strawberry (flavored) cake. When I asked them if they had fun, they told me it was the “best day ever.”

    They enjoyed their first day of swim lessons. Each one felt confident and brave. They didn’t want the lesson to end and declared it the “best day ever.”

    Later that same week, we attended Turlock’s 4th of July Parade right after the kids finished that day’s swim lesson. It was sweltering, and they were exhausted but excited to see their Uncle Jimmy and Cousin Matt driving their tractors in the parade. (This is always the highlight of every local parade.) They patiently waited and watched until they spotted them. Then they jumped up and down with glee, waving their hands and flags. On the way home, they talked about the parade and stated that this was, indeed, the “best day ever.”

    Experiencing these days with the kids has taught me a valuable lesson. It doesn’t take much to make it the best day ever. It’s not the event that matters; it’s the attitude that makes the difference. Each day has the potential to be the best day ever when we live in the moment. We will find it by examining our schedules and planned activities with a positive attitude and looking for joy. The clock resets each night, and we get the chance to do it again the next day.

    So, what will it take for you to experience the “best day ever?”

  • County Fair Winners

    County Fair Winners

    We’ve taken Jameson and Charlotte to the fair over the last few years. It’s become a tradition. Since their parents have no interest in attending, we get the privilege of taking them to get a milkshake and see the photos I entered. (They only care about the pictures of them.) We were able to avoid the carnival until last year, so we just decided to surrender to the fact that we had to spend more time (and money) while we were there.

    This year’s visit was miserable in the middle of the heatwave. We went as early as possible, but it was just way too hot to walk around and do much. There wasn’t air-conditioning in the exhibit buildings either, so we didn’t spend much time there. The kids went on a couple of rides (the only riders) and then agreed that going home was a good idea. I think we were there for 45 minutes in total. To make matters worse, most of the photos I entered didn’t win any prize, so the whole adventure was a bit of a bust. Since it won’t be long before the kids will be stuck down there in 4-H, maybe it’s time to retire the tradition.

    So here are the winners from this year, which may very well be my last.

  • Shark Week Ultimate Fan: A Major Award

    Shark Week Ultimate Fan: A Major Award

    Shark Week snuck up on us this year. The celebration was scheduled (by the Discovery Channel) much earlier than usual, but we still managed to have a great time paying homage to sharks and learning more about them.

    Don’t know about Shark Week? Here’s a brief explanation from AI.

    Shark Week, an annual television event hosted by the Discovery Channel, first aired in 1988 and has since become a cultural phenomenon. Originally conceived to educate the public about sharks and dispel misconceptions surrounding these apex predators, Shark Week has evolved into a highly anticipated week-long series of documentaries, films, and specials that explore various aspects of shark behavior, conservation efforts, and scientific research. Its purpose remains rooted in promoting awareness and appreciation for sharks while highlighting their critical role in marine ecosystems. Over the years, Shark Week has garnered a global audience and continues to captivate viewers with its thrilling and informative programming.1

    Several years ago, I promised myself I would not let Shark Week pass by without celebrating. I was stuck in a job I hated and would have given anything to stay home at that time and watch the programming instead of going to work. So, Shark Week celebrates (with tremendous gratitude) the freedom I now enjoy. When Jameson was born, I decided to make it a family affair; now, it is a hard and fast tradition. The kids are all in, too. Jameson woke Sierra on a Sunday morning to tell her, “Happy Shark Week!”

    This year brought a bonus surprise. The day before Shark Week began, I received a phone call. We were going to the County Fair with the kids, and I answered it on speaker. My friend Stephanie was calling to see if I was home. She was delivering a special prize to me for winning the title of “Shark Week Ultimate Fan!” Since I wasn’t home, she left it on the porch to retrieve when we got home. To say the kids were thrilled was an understatement! “Granny won a major award!” (A Christmas Story reference.) They couldn’t wait to get back to open the package.


    Inside was a beautiful, homemade quilt Stephanie made for me. The patchwork on the front features images of sharks and other patterns in matching blue and turquoise. The fabric on the backside is dark blue with a subtle pattern that resembles the deep ocean and features stitching in the shape of sharks. It truly is magnificent. The kids were thrilled, and I was honored. Stephanie is one of my favorite childhood friends, and this generous act rekindled a flood of beautiful memories.

    This quilt is not the first Shark Week gift we’ve received. One of the best parts of our Shark Week history is the participation of friends and family. I constantly receive texts or messages with Shark Week ideas. We’ve also received many gifts over the years, from homemade shark tails to cookies, painted rocks and even cookies and cupcakes. The generosity and enthusiasm are endless.

    The kids told me this was “the best Shark Week” ever, and I think they’re right. It keeps getting better and better.

    1. OpenAI. (2024). ChatGPT (3.5) Large language model. https://chatgpt.com
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  • Weight Loss and Prescription Medication

    Weight Loss and Prescription Medication

    A few notes before we begin –
    HAPPY SHARK WEEK! July 7-13
    PRAYER INTENTIONS – Leroy and I will travel to a Catholic conference this summer and we would be honored to carry your prayer intentions with us. Your requests are important to us, Just like they were in April. Send me your requests via email, text, contact form, etc.

    I’ve lost approximately forty pounds in the last year and am the healthiest I have ever been. I work out regularly, including weight lifting and cardio, and I’ve given up some (not all) lousy eating habits. I don’t tell you this to boast. I want to inspire and educate others who struggle to maintain a healthy weight. If I had a friend with this knowledge, I would like them to share it.

    It is no secret that I have struggled with my weight my entire adult life. I’ve tried various methods to lose weight over the years. I even underwent a gastric bypass procedure in 2004. I successfully lost 100 lbs but gained and lost the same 50 lbs repeatedly over the years. But I’ve found a new tool that has been a game changer: prescription weight loss drugs.

    I know, I know, this is a controversial topic. Many of my friends will delete this email or close their browsers at this point in the post. If you’re still with me, hear me out.

    Firstly, obesity is not simply a matter of appearance or self-control; it’s a complex medical condition with profound health implications. From increased risks of heart disease and diabetes to joint problems and mental health issues, obesity significantly impacts quality of life and life expectancy. For many individuals, lifestyle changes like diet and exercise alone may not be sufficient to achieve and maintain a healthy weight. Prescription weight loss drugs can provide additional support, helping patients achieve meaningful weight loss and improve their overall health outcomes.

    Secondly, the shame and stigma surrounding obesity often deter individuals from seeking effective treatment options, including prescription drugs. This stigma can lead to social isolation, mental health struggles, and reluctance to pursue medical help. By normalizing prescription weight loss medications, we can create a more supportive environment where individuals feel empowered to address their health needs without fear of judgment or discrimination.

    We live in an era of unprecedented medical advancement. Treatments and cures for health issues only dreamed of a decade ago are now available. It only makes sense that we would make headway on weight management. We know the old methods don’t work for long-term weight loss, and when scientists went back to the drawing board, a new approach appeared. These medications are not new, but now they are FDA-approved for other uses, like weight management.

    I was introduced to the idea of prescription weight loss drugs when a friend lost forty pounds using Ozempic. I was initially skeptical, but when I saw her improved health, I decided to look into it myself. My insurance did not cover the GLP-1 class of medication, so I opted to try oral medications. I take a combination of three different drugs; one is an anti-depressant, one is an anti-addiction medication, and one controls the glucose in my blood. This regimen has changed the way I think about food. I no longer obsess about food or eat to suppress emotions. I am full faster, with smaller portions and stay satisfied for longer. After all those years of focusing on my stomach, my brain needed the treatment.

    I prefer to be on a GLP-1. One medication, once a week, would be ideal for me. I now know many people who have been successful on these drugs and have improved many areas of their health. Eventually, insurance companies will realize that prevention is cheaper than treatment, and coverage will change.

    Here are some common questions I’ve been asked:

    Q: What about the side effects?

    A: I haven’t had any, but many people do. It won’t work for everyone. Each medication is different, just as each patient is different.

    Q: But it’s a prescribed drug. Aren’t you afraid of the risks?

    A: Obesity has side effects, too. In my opinion, I would rather take these drugs as opposed to medications to treat high blood pressure or diabetes. I have a strong family history of diabetes, and I’d rather avoid it than treat it. I know people who have been able to reduce or eliminate many other medications due to the weight loss from prescription medication.

    Q: Isn’t it cheating?

    A: Is it cheating to take insulin if you have diabetes?

    Q: Is it safe?

    A: Is obesity safe?

    Q: What about the long-term effects? These drugs are too new, and there is no research on long-term effects.

    A: We know the long-term effects of obesity, which are not good.

    I firmly believe this choice is not for everyone, but many could be helped by these medications and sharing our knowledge and experience is helpful. I also think that we need to change our attitude toward these treatments and stop judging and criticizing others who choose to use this method to control their weight. This post is my first step in trying to change the conversation. I refuse to be shamed by this, and I hope others are encouraged to consider their health and all available options.

    It’s essential to recognize that obesity is a multifaceted issue that requires a multidimensional approach. While lifestyle modifications remain a cornerstone of treatment, prescription weight loss drugs offer a scientifically backed option for those who struggle to achieve sustainable weight loss through diet and exercise alone. Embracing these medications as part of mainstream obesity treatment not only acknowledges the complexity of the condition but also validates the experiences of individuals who are battling obesity.

    If you’d like to know more about my regimen, click here to send me a message, and we can schedule a chat.

  • June Commonplace | Book Report

    June Commonplace | Book Report

    A few notes before we begin –
    SHARK WEEK 2024 begins July 7-13 (Mark your calendars.)


    PRAYER INTENTIONS—Leroy and I will travel to a Catholic conference this summer, and we would be honored to carry your prayer intentions with us. Your requests are important to us, just like they were in April. Send me your intentions via email, text, contact form, etc.

    BOOK: Wolf Hall by Hilary Mantel
    This book was recommended by my new British Buddy, Stuart. (We met Stuart and his wife Deb on our April trip to Poland, Prague and Germany.) Stuart and I discovered we shared a love of history and historical fiction. This is the first of three books that tell the story of Thomas Cromwell in the court of Henry VIII. It is a massive book that took me a long time to finish, but Stuart was right; I loved it. I also remember he mentioned the Wolf Hall TV series based on the books. I found and binged it right after I finished the novel. Considering how many top actors participated, I was surprised I hadn’t heard of the TV show. I loved it; it was a great way to close out the experience of the book. (I always mourn the end of a good book.)

    BOOK: The Little Liar by Mitch Albom
    This book was another recommendation that came from our trip in April. There were many of us on the tour interested in World War II history and Nazi Germany, so we discussed books with several people. On a tour of Oskar Schindler’s Factory in Krakow, one of the participants recommended this book. He said it was a great example of how individual experiences of the war could vary from person to person. This book begins with the Nazi occupation of Greece and follows four characters as they navigate their circumstances. Each one’s path was different, yet they were all connected.

    I assigned this book to July’s Book Club. I’m curious to hear what everyone thought.

    TV: Hitler and the Nazi’s – Evil on Trial – Netflix
    Netflix released a new Hitler/Nazi series in June, and I thought it was excellent. It tells of Hitler’s rise to power and includes a lot about the Nuremberg Trials.


    “Move toward the next thing, not away from the last thing. Same direction. Completely different energy.” – James Clear

    “Guilt lives in the past. Worry lives in the future. Peace lives in the present.” – James Clear

    “Make a mistake? Release the guilt, remember the lesson.” – James Clear

    “Those who lack the courage will always find a philosophy to justify it.” — Albert Camus, philosopher and author

    “There is a huge amount of freedom that comes to you when you take nothing personally.”

  • Commonplace | May

    Commonplace | May

    Minnie the Mouse by Charlotte Oliveira

    “Clarity isn’t about knowing what you want to do with your life, it’s about knowing what you want to do this week.
    You don’t need to have it all figured out. You just need to know your next step.” – James Clear

    “It’s remarkable how often the real problem is not what happened, but how it was communicated.” – James Clear

    “There are at least 4 types of wealth:
    Financial wealth (money)
    Social wealth (status)
    Time wealth (freedom)
    Physical wealth (health)
    Be wary of jobs that lure you in with 1 and 2, but rob you of 3 and 4.” — James Clear

    “Trust in God, but tie up your camel.”