Don't be that guy that sits around pissing and moaning about the way things are in your life. If you don't like something, change it. It's just that simple. Hoping and wishing are great, but they don't do the work. You've got to take action if you want something to be different. You can't keep doing the same thing and expect different results.
I think chance is a lot like luck... I'm not a believer. I think it's just something else to blame when things don't go your way. Situations don't happen by chance, they happen by choice.
Want a better life? Make a better choice.